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#RI-6a6b0c98·7 months ago·
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Quit smoking after a decade due to health concerns

Relapsed into smoking after dating a heavy smoker, lost healthy habits

What I wish I knew
"Quitting with a partner who smokes is extremely challenging"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with partner, prioritize own recovery, set boundaries"
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High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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