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#RI-69a91233·2 months ago·
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“Questioning whether calm attraction is normal in a relationship”
What Actually Happened
I'm dating someone where the attraction feels calm and peaceful, unlike my past relationships which were intense and lust-driven
What I wish I knew
"Maybe calm attraction is a sign of a healthier dynamic"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't overthink it, let the relationship develop naturally"
Regret Index
2/10
Positive or neutral outcome.
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relationships Category
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relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 6.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
11%
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