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#RI-6a7aa915·6 months ago·
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“questioned my wife's family's cultural practices”
What Actually Happened
My wife thought I was being racist when I questioned her family's mop pad orientation, which made me feel hurt and offended
What I wish I knew
"more about her family's cultural practices before speaking"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"be more mindful of cultural differences in your partner's family"
Regret Index
8/10
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The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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