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#RI-6a7aa915·3 months ago·
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questioned my wife's family's cultural practices

My wife thought I was being racist when I questioned her family's mop pad orientation, which made me feel hurt and offended

What I wish I knew
"more about her family's cultural practices before speaking"
If I could tell you one thing
"be more mindful of cultural differences in your partner's family"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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