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heartbreakAvoidant Behavior
#RI-6a6b08a3·7 months ago·
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Lookback: 2 years

Pushed him away due to feelings of scarcity

Ex-boyfriend cheated, broke up over text, hurt my confidence and ability to build connections

What I wish I knew
"To give myself grace and not dwell on past mistakes"
If I could tell you one thing
"Focus on self-improvement and building meaningful connections"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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heartbreak Category
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heartbreak decisions logged. Avg regret 6.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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of heartbreak decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.