RelationshipsUnrequited love
#RI-6a7aab47·3 months ago·
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“I pursued him despite knowing he wasn't interested”
What Actually Happened
I repeatedly put him in uncomfortable situations and made him feel like I was all about myself
What I wish I knew
"his boundaries and emotional needs were different from mine"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"be honest and respectful of the other person's feelings and boundaries"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
153
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 6.9/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
64%
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