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#RI-6a7aab31·4 months ago·
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Chose to pursue a guy who wanted to hook up

Pursued a guy who only wanted to hook up, got hurt, and now struggle with trust issues

What I wish I knew
"To be more discerning in the early stages of a relationship"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious of guys who only want to hook up and prioritize self-improvement"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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