RelationshipsToxic Relationship
#RI-6a7aa997·4 months ago·
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“Got involved with someone who treated me differently in public”
What Actually Happened
He was extremely affectionate privately but distant and uncomfortable in public, damaging my trust and self-esteem
What I wish I knew
"He would have been honest about not wanting a relationship"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious of people who treat you differently in public vs private"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
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Same Outcome Band
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