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#RI-69a91300·4 months ago·
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“Proposed without being ready”

Partner proposed then said it was a mistake, hurt my feelings

What I wish I knew
"He wasn't ready for commitment"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate clearly about readiness for commitment"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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