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#RI-69ba76d7·4 months ago·
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proposed to someone I thought I was in love with

I proposed to someone I thought I was in love with, but it turned out he was not interested in me, and his behavior was weird and made me feel uncomfortable

What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known his true intentions and behavior before proposing to him"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious and don't rush into relationships, and get to know someone's true personality and intentions before committing to them"
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6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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