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#RI-69f86aa9·5 months ago·
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I projected my fears and pushed my new boyfriend away.

TL; Dr; Self sabotaging a romantic relationship with a nice boy

F22 A little over a month ago I met this wonderful boy, I genuinely felt like I saw a future with him, delusional or not I havnt met a lot of people that made me feel the way he had. He was gentle and patient and had a lot of rare qualities. I knew I wanted to be serious with him. He took me on several dates we talked all the time. By the end of April he asked to be exclusive and for me to be his gf. This is a title I have always c

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