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#RI-6a7aa951·3 months ago·
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prioritized therapy over partner's recovery

Boyfriend prioritized therapy over my post-op recovery, causing emotional distress and hurt

What I wish I knew
"I wish I had set clear boundaries and communicated my needs more effectively"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and set clear boundaries in relationships, prioritize partner's needs when necessary"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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