FamilyParental Neglect
#RI-6ab5f249·6 months ago·
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“Prioritize own well-being over mother's needs”
What Actually Happened
Mother chose abuser over me, now she's in crisis and seeking help
What I wish I knew
"I should've set boundaries sooner"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't enable abusive family members, prioritize self-care"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Family Category
150
Family decisions logged. Avg regret 7.1/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of Family decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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