RelationshipsBoyfriend/Girlfriend
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1 day ago
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"I did my chores instead of attending his last-minute event."
What Actually Happened
I told my boyfriend I couldn't attend a last-minute event because I had chores and needed to help a friend. He got very upset, accused me of having time for everyone but him, and said he felt rejected.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how to reassure him that I care without sacrificing my own time and needs."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't feel guilty for needing personal time to run errands, even if your partner feels left out."
Regret Score
4/10
Minor frustrations, but overall net-positive or acceptable.
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