relationshipsBoyfriend/Girlfriend
#RI-69f868ce·5 months ago·
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“I did my chores instead of attending his last-minute event.”
What Actually Happened
I told my boyfriend I couldn't attend a last-minute event because I had chores and needed to help a friend. He got very upset, accused me of having time for everyone but him, and said he felt rejected.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how to reassure him that I care without sacrificing my own time and needs."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't feel guilty for needing personal time to run errands, even if your partner feels left out."
Regret Index
4/10
Significant downsides.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
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Same Outcome Band
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