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#RI-6af29707·5 months ago·
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“I want to prioritize my current debts and building an emergency fund before saving up for an engagement ring”

My girlfriend is pushing for an engagement ring, but I'm focused on my career and financial stability

What I wish I knew
"How to communicate my financial goals to my partner without conflict"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about your financial priorities and goals"
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The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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