friendshipunbalanced communication
#RI-69f87aa4·5 months ago·
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“I pretend I don't notice they don't wanna talk to me”
What Actually Happened
I feel like I'm always the one to initiate plans and conversations with my friends, even though they seem to genuinely like me when we hang out
What I wish I knew
"that I don't need to constantly seek validation from others"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"don't pretend like you're fine when you're not, it's okay to address issues in your relationships"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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friendship Category
83
friendship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
64%
of friendship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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