personalfamily/parenting
#RI-6a23cac0·6 months ago·
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“My Nmom confessed to partying while pregnant with me”
What Actually Happened
I was born premature and physically disabled due to her substance abuse
What I wish I knew
"She should have had an abortion instead of putting me through this"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't enable or excuse substance abuse during pregnancy"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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personal Category
596
personal decisions logged. Avg regret 6.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
58%
of personal decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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