Relationshipsmarriage
#RI-69f8659a·7 months ago·
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“Argued with my husband after our baby was born.”
What Actually Happened
After our difficult baby was born, I was overwhelmed and constantly argued with my husband about him not doing enough. He grew distant, said he fell out of love, and now wants to separate.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how my constant criticism and arguments would permanently damage his feelings for me."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be mindful of how you treat your partner during the stressful newborn phase, as it can have lasting consequences."
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
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