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RelationshipsRejection
#RI-6a7aaaf7·8 months ago·
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Lookback: After 2–3 dates

“Be clear and kind when rejecting someone”

Realised I wasn't compatible, needed to reject politely

What I wish I knew
"Clear and kind rejection can avoid mixed signals"
If I could tell you one thing
"Use 'we' to make rejection feel mutual"
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2/10
Positive or neutral outcome.
Would make the same decision again.
SettledMixedSevere

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