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RelationshipsCommunication Issues
#RI-6ab353b8·4 months ago·
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Talked about it for years, now I'm bringing it up

My partner stopped initiating sex, only did hand stuff

What I wish I knew
"Why he stopped and what's going on"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and don't assume everything is fine"
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The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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