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#RI-69a910e6·2 months ago·
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Lookback: 6 months into the relationship

Partner's lack of emotional labor

Partner says he's in love but doesn't show it, leaving me to do all the emotional labor

What I wish I knew
"He would actually take initiative to show love and affection"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate your needs clearly and consider a breakup if they're not met"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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