Relationshipscommunication
#RI-69a910e6·4 months ago·
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“Partner's lack of emotional labor”
What Actually Happened
Partner says he's in love but doesn't show it, leaving me to do all the emotional labor
What I wish I knew
"He would actually take initiative to show love and affection"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate your needs clearly and consider a breakup if they're not met"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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