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#RI-69a91023·4 months ago·
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Lookback: 2 months into relationship

“Partner didn't disclose herpes diagnosis before sex”

Found medication in his bathroom, partner admitted to genital herpes

What I wish I knew
"Disclosed diagnosis before intimacy"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly about health concerns before sex"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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