“Partner (37M) asked me (31F) to shave legs”

Update - wow, this is insane, thank you everyone for leaving your comments.

I want to start by pointing out that yes, I recognised I am flawed as a partner. I do agree that we are both careless in our words, and possibly have led to such big misunderstanding.

In my eyes, this "minor childish" disagreement about shaving legs has revealed more than that. Firstly, as I was never considered hairy in the first place, this whole conversation was nonsensical to me that it even happened. Had I been ha