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Relationshipstrauma and COVID
#RI-6a6b0b46·9 months ago·
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“blaming myself for parent's health”

My parent was hospitalized with severe COVID and pneumonia, and I feel guilty for not doing more to help.

What I wish I knew
"the importance of emotional support during a parent's illness"
If I could tell you one thing
"don't blame yourself for things beyond your control"
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The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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