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#RI-6a6b063b·7 months ago·
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Lookback: Years

Parallel parenting abusive ex

Ex reappeared after years, abusive during marriage

What I wish I knew
"How to protect myself and child"
If I could tell you one thing
"Stay focused on child, maintain boundaries"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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