“Tried to change everything at once”

Item: Tried to change everything at once
Rating: 2
Author: u/tank02002

What Actually Happened

Dated emotionally abusive partner, lost habits, broke down after trying to change too much

What I wish I knew

"Setbacks are normal, take it slow"

Advice to Someone Facing This Now

If I could tell you one thing

"Start small, build gradually"

Regret Index

8/10

Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.

SettledMixedSevere

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personal Category

596

personal decisions logged. Avg regret 6.2/10 across the category.

Same Outcome Band

58%

of personal decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.