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self-improvementrelationship issues
#RI-6a23cbb8·6 months ago·
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struggle with feelings of unworthiness and need for constant reassurance

I'm constantly seeking validation from others, feeling like I'm not special or worthy of love

What I wish I knew
"how to be happy alone and find self-worth without external validation"
If I could tell you one thing
"don't rely on others for happiness, focus on self-love and self-acceptance"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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