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#RI-6ab352d0·5 months ago·
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“cope with dying abusive father”
What Actually Happened
growing up in abusive household, CSA, neglect, poverty
What I wish I knew
"he would change and apologize"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"don't feel obligated to forgive or contact abusers"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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family Category
120
family decisions logged. Avg regret 7.3/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of family decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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