friendshipshelping dynamic
#RI-6a23cc0c·6 months ago·
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“Want friendships for fun, not just help”
What Actually Happened
Always used as free advice machine, therapist, etc. in relationships
What I wish I knew
"People's intentions and boundaries need to be respected"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Set clear boundaries and prioritize self-care"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
Advice for Someone Facing This
Short, upvotable wisdom. The most helpful rises to the top.
No advice yet. Be the first to share wisdom.
friendships Category
9
friendships decisions logged. Avg regret 8/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
100%
of friendships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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