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#RI-6a7aa918·23 days ago·
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“Woke up husband at night to pump”
What Actually Happened
Husband complains when woken up at night to help with baby and pumping
What I wish I knew
"His frustration is valid but needs to be communicated respectfully"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate feelings and needs clearly, set boundaries, and find compromise"
Regret Index
6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Marriage Category
39
Marriage decisions logged. Avg regret 7.3/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
15%
of Marriage decisions land in the regret band the same as this one.
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