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#RI-6aad12b6·about 2 months ago·
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trying to navigate uncertain relationship dynamics

I've been dating a girl who wants to wait for her job situation to settle, but we're becoming more romantic and I'm lending her money

What I wish I knew
"whether she's genuinely hesitant or has other doubts"
If I could tell you one thing
"consider having an honest conversation and setting boundaries around lending money"
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Complicated feelings about the outcome.
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