Relationshipsundefined dating situation
#RI-6aad12b6·4 months ago·
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“trying to navigate uncertain relationship dynamics”
What Actually Happened
I've been dating a girl who wants to wait for her job situation to settle, but we're becoming more romantic and I'm lending her money
What I wish I knew
"whether she's genuinely hesitant or has other doubts"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"consider having an honest conversation and setting boundaries around lending money"
Regret Index
5/10
Significant downsides.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
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Relationships Category
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Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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