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#RI-6a6b03ee·9 months ago·
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“Partner's past relationships bother me”

Found out partner maintains friendships with exes and casual encounters

What I wish I knew
"How to process and get over these feelings"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about boundaries"
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The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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