RelationshipsConfusion
#RI-69a91268·4 months ago·
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“Navigating attraction to a man after 8 years as a lesbian”
What Actually Happened
I'm experiencing attraction to a man for the first time, despite being a lesbian for 8 years
What I wish I knew
"How to gauge if he'd reciprocate my feelings without ruining our friendship"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with yourself and the other person about your feelings"
Regret Index
6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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