relationalavoidant partner
#RI-69ba780d
about 2 months ago
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"Navigating a push-pull dynamic with my avoidant partner"
What Actually Happened
He recorded my mental health spirals without my consent, citing leverage, after secretly getting a lease and planning to leave, further violating our trust
What I wish I knew
"He would respect my boundaries and work with me to repair our communication before making significant decisions"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious of partners who prioritize their own needs over your emotional well-being and boundaries"
Regret Score
8/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
relational Category Average
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Impact
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