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#RI-69ba78a4·6 months ago·
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“My wife read racy novels without telling me”
What Actually Happened
I discovered her secret.virtual library of 50+ racy novels, including 12 she admitted to reading
What I wish I knew
"She valued her reading over our marriage"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly about your feelings and boundaries"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
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