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#RI-69a913d2·2 months ago·
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my wife and I should try therapy or should I just leave

my wife has been emotionally and physically abusive to me, causing constant fighting and stress

What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known about her abusive tendencies before getting married"
If I could tell you one thing
"Seek help and support if you're in an abusive relationship, don't be afraid to leave"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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