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#RI-69ba7055·5 months ago·
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“My partner's mom is getting involved in his finances”

She's offering to buy us a house and wants a shared bank account, which feels off

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew more about her financial situation and intentions"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious of sudden changes in financial involvement from family members"
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The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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