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RelationshipsLack of Passion
#RI-69aa879c·5 months ago·
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“My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years, but she's lost her passion for me”

She's grown tired and less passionate, blaming work and feeling unattractive

What I wish I knew
"Her feelings weren't just about me, but also about her own self-perception"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and try to understand each other's needs and feelings"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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