“My bf said I've seemed passive the past month”

Item: My bf said I've seemed passive the past month
Rating: 6
Author: u_evaissodamnawesome

What Actually Happened

I asked a question about his past, and he got upset, saying I've seemed passive and unenthusiastic

What I wish I knew

"He might have been embarrassed by my question"

Advice to Someone Facing This Now

If I could tell you one thing

"Communicate openly, don't assume the other person's intentions"

Regret Index

4/10

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Complicated feelings about the outcome.

SettledMixedSevere

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