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#RI-6ab21255·about 2 months ago·
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Lookback: 2 years after separation/divorce

Moved on with new partner after divorce

Ex-wife tried to get me back despite my clear boundaries, gaslighted and blamed me for her infidelity

What I wish I knew
"The guilt trip won't stop after divorce"
If I could tell you one thing
"Set clear boundaries and prioritize self-care to avoid getting pulled back in"
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6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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