What Actually Happened
My husband had a long-term relationship before marrying me, and I found out he was still in contact with her after we got engaged
What I wish I knew
"He was still in love with his ex when we got married"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest and open with your partner about their past"
Regret Score
8/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Relationship Category Average
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Impact
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