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#RI-6a6b03f7·7 months ago·
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Lookback: 3+ year relationship

Maintaining friendship with past crush

Past crush still affects current relationship

What I wish I knew
"Past feelings impact partner's comfort"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate values for healthy relationships"
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Significant downsides.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
SettledMixedSevere

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