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relationshipStrained
#RI-6a9e4f66·3 months ago·
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Lookback: 1 year

Moving in with parents after 2 years of living together

I've taken on 100% of household labor while my girlfriend struggles with AuDHD, causing resentment and drifting apart

What I wish I knew
"How to have this conversation without feeling like a soft breakup"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly about intentions and boundaries"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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