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#RI-6a6b0798·7 months ago·
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Moved in with girlfriend despite her past affair

Discovered girlfriend's past affair through phone records, causing trust issues and emotional distress

What I wish I knew
"She would've been honest about her past"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly about past relationships before committing"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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