PersonalDating
#RI-6ac23eae·about 2 months ago·
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“Moved in with boyfriend”
What Actually Happened
My cats caused tension in my relationship, especially when my partner wanted to move in. I had to rehome some of them to make it work.
What I wish I knew
"That my partner's feelings about my cats would be a bigger issue than I thought."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Consider your partner's feelings about your pets before moving in together."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Personal Category
238
Personal decisions logged. Avg regret 5.4/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
49%
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