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#RI-6aa37db6·5 months ago·
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Lookback: 2 weeks after moving in

Moved in with boyfriend

Boyfriend spends multiple nights at parents' house, leaving me feeling like a roommate

What I wish I knew
"His family dynamics and attachment level before moving in"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate boundaries and expectations with partner before moving in together"
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6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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