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#RI-6a23c9b3·6 months ago·
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Lookback: During deployment

Moved out to avoid tensions

Wife moved someone into our home after deployment, ended marriage

What I wish I knew
"Communicate more about boundaries"
If I could tell you one thing
"Establish clear boundaries before separation"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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