RelationshipsCodependency
#RI-6aeaade1·5 months ago·
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“Moved in together without discussing household decision-making”
What Actually Happened
My boyfriend relies on his mother for every household decision, making me feel like I'm living in a thrupple and killing my attraction to him
What I wish I knew
"How to discuss setting boundaries with his mother without feeling like I'm attacking her"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate your needs and set boundaries with your partner's family to maintain a healthy relationship"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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