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#RI-69a91370·2 months ago·
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“Moved in with fiancé without discussing chores”
What Actually Happened
Feeling burnt out from doing all household chores, feeling like a caregiver instead of partner
What I wish I knew
"Communicate expectations and responsibilities before moving in"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Discuss and establish clear roles and responsibilities in a relationship"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationships Category
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relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 6.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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