personalRelationship
#RI-69a9101e·2 months ago·
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“Moved in with boyfriend after 1.5 years of dating”
What Actually Happened
Boyfriend dismisses concerns about hygiene and damaging belongings, turns into arguments
What I wish I knew
"How to communicate effectively without arguing"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate calmly and set clear boundaries"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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596
personal decisions logged. Avg regret 6.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
58%
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