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#RI-69a913ef·4 months ago·
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“Moved forward with house repairs despite husband's uncertainty”

Husband declined job offer, said he was unhappy and unsure what he wanted, then asked for divorce without warning

What I wish I knew
"He was unhappy and unsure sooner"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly about feelings and concerns"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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