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#RI-69a913ef·2 months ago·
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“Moved forward with house repairs despite husband's uncertainty”
What Actually Happened
Husband declined job offer, said he was unhappy and unsure what he wanted, then asked for divorce without warning
What I wish I knew
"He was unhappy and unsure sooner"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly about feelings and concerns"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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relationship Category
743
relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.5/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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